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Time together
3 rows. A group is the level between a category and a task: one thing a person could hand over whole, split into the rows it actually takes. The app shows groups collapsed and lets you answer at either level.
| Task | How often | Minutes | Takes out of you | Sits in your mind | Breaks your day | The doing | The carrying |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Plan your partner's birthday, your anniversary and the holidays | three times a year | 90 | a little | on your mind | mostly flexible | 0.10 | 0.76 |
| Make time together happen: suggest it, book it, arrange childcare | every three months | 45 | a little | on your mind | mostly flexible | 0.07 | 0.77 |
| Protect the time together once it's on the calendar cognitive only | every three months | 3 | a little | on your mind | needs a slot | 0.00 | 0.77 |
Which households get these
A new household is seeded from its own answers, so most of these rows only appear where they apply.
- Make time together happen: suggest it, book it, arrange childcare — not seeded into a new household — found by searching
- Plan your partner's birthday, your anniversary and the holidays — not seeded into a new household — found by searching
- Protect the time together once it's on the calendar — not seeded into a new household — found by searching
Something missing, or something weighted wrong?
This is the part of Champignon that is genuinely unfinished, and the part a person outside this household can fix. Two routes, neither of which needs an account:
- Something we don't have — a task you do that isn't listed here.
- A weight that looks wrong — tell us which row, and what it should sit above or below. A comparison is actionable; feels wrong on its own isn't.
What happens next, and how a weight actually changes, is on Contribute.