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Birthdays and anniversaries

4 rows. A group is the level between a category and a task: one thing a person could hand over whole, split into the rows it actually takes. The app shows groups collapsed and lets you answer at either level.

Task	How often	Minutes	Takes out of you	Sits in your mind	Breaks your day	The doing	The carrying
Keep the master list of birthdays and anniversaries	once a month	15	barely notice it	never leaves your head	fits anywhere	0.06	1.21
why Vigilance 5. This is the substrate the whole category runs on and it is almost never named as a task by the person who does not hold it.
Remember extended-family birthdays and get a card or present there in time	most months	35	a little	on your mind	mostly flexible	0.13	0.84
why ANCHOR — the kin-keeping reference point. F5.4: social relationships +134%, and di Leonardo (1987) established kin work as a distinct category of labour. Low energy, real carry, and invisible unless it is missed — which is the entire shape of the load this product exists to show.
Organize a milestone birthday for a family member	twice a year	240	takes something	on your mind	needs a slot	0.19	0.74
Remember and mark anniversaries inside the household	every three months	60	a little	on your mind	mostly flexible	0.09	0.77

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