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Seeing the wider family

4 rows. A group is the level between a category and a task: one thing a person could hand over whole, split into the rows it actually takes. The app shows groups collapsed and lets you answer at either level.

Task	How often	Minutes	Takes out of you	Sits in your mind	Breaks your day	The doing	The carrying
Plan visits to and from extended family	every six weeks	60	a little	never leaves your head	needs a slot	0.19	1.14
Coordinate a family get-together	every six weeks	30	a little	never leaves your head	mostly flexible	0.09	1.14
Host family staying overnight	every three months	240	draining	on your mind	breaks the day	0.44	0.77
Negotiate whose family is seen at the big holidays	every three months	60	draining	on your mind	mostly flexible	0.10	0.77
why Concrete and schedulable, so it belongs here rather than in emotional_relational: it is a negotiation with an outcome and a deadline, not a relational state.

Something missing, or something weighted wrong?

This is the part of Champignon that is genuinely unfinished, and the part a person outside this household can fix. Two routes, neither of which needs an account:

Something we don't have — a task you do that isn't listed here.
A weight that looks wrong — tell us which row, and what it should sit above or below. A comparison is actionable; feels wrong on its own isn't.

What happens next, and how a weight actually changes, is on Contribute.