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The children's friendships
6 rows. A group is the level between a category and a task: one thing a person could hand over whole, split into the rows it actually takes. The app shows groups collapsed and lets you answer at either level.
| Task | How often | Minutes | Takes out of you | Sits in your mind | Breaks your day | The doing | The carrying |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Help with friendship problems and fallings-out | every two weeks | 25 | draining | never leaves your head | fits anywhere | 0.25 | 1.41 |
| Reply to party invitations, buy the present and get them there | once a month | 60 | a little | never leaves your head | breaks the day | 0.30 | 1.21 |
| why Vigilance 5 for a task most people would call trivial: an RSVP deadline, a present, a date, a location and a pick-up time, all held for a fortnight. | |||||||
| Keep up with the other parents | once a week | 15 | takes something | on your mind | fits anywhere | 0.28 | 1.21 |
| why Kin-keeping in a different costume, and the route through which most child logistics actually travel. Energy 3 because it is social work, not admin. | |||||||
| Arrange playdates and get the other parents to reply | every two weeks | 25 | a little | on your mind | mostly flexible | 0.24 | 1.01 |
| Host other people's children | once a month | 120 | draining | sits with you | needs a slot | 0.62 | 0.56 |
| Arrange, host or deliver to sleepovers | every couple of months | 90 | takes something | on your mind | breaks the day | 0.23 | 0.79 |
Which households get these
A new household is seeded from its own answers, so most of these rows only appear where they apply.
- Arrange playdates and get the other parents to reply — households with a child aged 3 to 11
- Arrange, host or deliver to sleepovers — households with a child of 6 or over, not seeded into a new household — found by searching
- Help with friendship problems and fallings-out — households with a child of 5 or over
- Host other people's children — households with a child aged 3 to 11, not seeded into a new household — found by searching
- Keep up with the other parents — households with a child of 3 or over
- Reply to party invitations, buy the present and get them there — households with a child aged 2 to 11
Something missing, or something weighted wrong?
This is the part of Champignon that is genuinely unfinished, and the part a person outside this household can fix. Two routes, neither of which needs an account:
- Something we don't have — a task you do that isn't listed here.
- A weight that looks wrong — tell us which row, and what it should sit above or below. A comparison is actionable; feels wrong on its own isn't.
What happens next, and how a weight actually changes, is on Contribute.